May 10, 2015

Mother's Day 2015

Mum with 1 month old GSL; November 1964


You have probably heard me say it before but I come from a line of strong, impressive women.  As a boy of about 4,  I remember being upset about being called 'names' by some older boys on the playground. I told Mum expecting sympathy and for her to go scold those name-calling boys.
Nope, she just told me about a little poem that they don't teach anymore....it's called 'Sticks and Stones'.  Ever since that day, I haven't once felt offended because "words will never hurt me..." Thanks Mum.
My Grandmother, Mary Lou Cooper (nee Long), on her wedding day 1937



My mother had a couple of fine examples to learn her great mothering tricks from and while she has endured considerable adversity she has never once complained. Ever.  The women up my line didn't do victim. No time for that nonsense. They got busy.

Here they are.

Grandpa Cooper, Great Grandma Long, Uncle D, Mum, and Grandma Cooper mid 1940s.


My Great-Grandmother Long (maternal grandmother's mother) became a widow around age 25 when her husband died in the Spanish Flu Epidemic of 1918. She had 4 hungry children and dreams of sending them to college that she didn't have the opportunity to attend. All by herself in 1918, she started an insurance company in Southwestern Ohio that put all 4 of her children through college and she bought a piano as she loved music and wanted her children to have the opportunity to experience the joys of musical performance. I can only imagine the pride she must have felt when attending her eldest child's, my grandmother, Mary Lou's Senior Recital at the Oberlin Conservatory of Music when she performed a piece by Chopin on piano. All 4 of G-Grandma Long's children graduated with distinction from college and were accomplished pianists. The insurance company Great Grandmother Long started in 1918 is still going strong and has provided comfortable homes and college educations for 4 generations.

I believe this is the room where my grandmother, Mary Lou Long, played Chopin's Polonaise-Fantaisie
for her Senior Recital at the Oberlin Conservatory of Music.
Grandma Cooper was by all accounts a wonderful pianist and could play hundreds of songs by ear...everything from Christmas Carols to Mozart. She was a schoolteacher and taught piano and for 28 years was the Music Director of the First United Methodist Church of Mansfield, Ohio. Her daughter, my mother, became a fine pianist and flautist in her own right but I know first hand that Grandma Cooper was especially proud of the day her son, my Uncle D, debuted at Avery Fisher Hall.

Uncle D in 1963. While my Grandmother was quite proud of my mother and spoke highly
of her musical attainments, I know Grandma was most proud of her son when
he debuted at Avery Fisher Hall. Her solemn tone of deep reverence when she said:
"Avery Fisher Hall" gave her away.
Yesterday, my mother attended the graduation of my beautiful niece who will begin her career as a school teacher this Fall in Denver.  I loved hearing the proud tone my mum invoked when citing my niece's academic honors.

A mother's influence is felt long after she's gone. I'm deeply grateful for having such wonderful grandmothers and a loving mother influence me.

My beautiful niece, M, who graduated yesterday with high honors with her proud grandmother in attendance.
She begins a career as a school teacher this Fall.
The Beat Goes On.

18 comments:

  1. G you are fortunate to come from such a line of women! Strong, beautiful and busy, that's quite the combination. I hope your mother is having a fine day today.

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    1. Thank you Dani! She's with my little brother and his family in Denver and will be calling her shortly. I'll bet all the rascals are celebrating their fine mother today!

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  2. Yes, I hope your mom's doing well and returns home safely. I made Millie homemade Belgium waffles topped with fresh strawberries, whipped cream and doused in hot maple syrup! She got flowers and four small gifts too. Wish you were here!

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    1. Sounds like Millie was in 'tall cotton' with her Belgian waffles, fresh strawberries, and whipped cream swimming in hot maple syrup...I know she had a big smile on her face! She's probably having a lie down after all that celebrating and GSL will call her later...and hear her tell me about those waffles.

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  3. Happy Mother's Day! Such a lovely tribute!

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    1. Thank you Wendy and I liked your tribute to your interesting mom!

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  4. love this post, nothing better than a man who adores the women in his life x

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  5. Strong women indeed, and a beautiful tribute to them all, delightfully illustrated through your lovely family photographs.

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  6. What a beautiful tribut the wonderful women in your family. Happy belated Mother's Day.

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  7. A family of fabulous looking women! Your mothers comments are good ones to remember. (similar to Eleanor sp?) Roosevelt Too many of us are offended at every turn

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    1. That's the best looking pic of my grandmother I've seen. She was rather a plain Jane and I could always sense she carried the psychological burden of feeling like an ugly duckling as her younger sister was a great beauty and the great charm and social ease it can often beckon...Grandma grew stout and her hair went white while still in her thirties so she through herself into her school teaching, piano teaching, and Music Directorship with great gusto and kept her house absolutely immaculate with nary a speck of dust ever to take up residence under her roof. She hit the ground running at dawn every day and ended her penning beautifully written (in both prose and calligraphy) letters to the over 50 lifelong friends she kept in weekly correspondence with from her time at Oberlin.

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  8. Mum is beautiful! What a lovely family. I would have sworn you were a scorpio, G.......

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    1. I just looked up the Scorpio traits and I believe everybody that knows me well would say your assumption is quite well reasoned. The Libra traits seem far too passive and deferential...must ask Mum if she's keeping something from me...

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